Monday, June 8, 2009

Meeting?

"To be or not to be" at this or that meeting can capture our Private Speaking.

Specifically Networking Meetings.

Meet and Greets.

Smoozing.

Connecting.

Initiating Contact.

Maintaining Connections.


The Human Relations Commission couldn't get along.

A Mastermind group wasn't getting mystery or mastery.

A Business Network got no results.

A Trade Organization became habitual.

A Service Club served itself, not the members.

These are all fictional example of taking our Private Speaking into public.

Transitions from inner world into the challenges & connections with the outer world.

When we 'deodorize our 'stinking-thinking' in order to better play with others and realize the goals that surface when we remove the stench and begin to smell the roses our criteria for connecting changes.

How to handle and communicate that change?

Network groups require time, and effort to connect and create the trust necessary to to build successful relationships.

Time is necessary to attain the attitude of 'givers gain'.

How much time?

Its too much time if its' no fun.

Feeling ignored, bored, conflicted, over-used, underused, having to go, going by habit, finding or fighting excuses is no fun even harmful to our Private Speaking.

Its no fun not getting your results.

Say Good Bye. Wish them well.
But do say good bye.
The completion is good for you and good for the group.

Namaste

Gary